From Anger & Worrying What People Thought To Happy & On Purpose

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This is what Ryan had to say about his six-week quest…

I am very happy that I completed the program; before I started the program I was an angry person.

I had a lot of anxiety. I always worried about what other people thought of me, and I really didn’t have the self-integrity to stand up for myself, but people pushed me around, picked on me, or bullied me. I had a lot of shame about my past as well.

This program has really helped me overcome certain fears and shame.

It has helped me deal with anger. It’s really helped my emotional intelligence and how I handle things. – trust me, I still have a lot of work to do but it’s given me a foundation.

The other thing that has been really good was doing the exercises, and really looking at my values, my beliefs, my belief system, and having the personal integrity to stand up for myself and not be ashamed of my past. 

One of the exercises I think was very important was looking at my past; looking at my timeline, and doing the blackball video because one of the things I was constantly fearful of was doing videos, and video content, for my business. Just fears around that and what other people thought – and as Simon said “it’s just one person you’re worried about.” 

Now I’m more confident I’m actually doing videos for my business, I’ve been doing videos for this program, and I love doing videos. I think my super quantum zone is just producing content and producing videos, and just doing great things like that. 

Looking at my values and belief system was important.

Looking at my zone of genius was very important because I really have been struggling in the past. What am I passionate about what I want to do with my life, what makes me happy, what is low energy, what’s medium energy, and what gives me very high energy. 

And I now know. I have an understanding of what gives me high energy and what I want to do. Now feel like I have a purpose and I have the confidence to do what I want to do. 

I’m not afraid of what other people think, I’m not afraid to fail – I believe I’ll be successful. 

Now I’m just excited because I feel like I can do anything I want to, there are no limits to what I can do and I wake up every day with a new sense of purpose and passion and drive. 

I’m taking care of myself. Exercise is very important to me. Meditation is very important to me. Learning morning routines and how you get your morning started is very important. If I can’t sleep I now use the meditation resources that are available to me. 

Those are all great things that I didn’t have before, so I wake up with a sense of purpose and I’m happy. I still get angry from time to time of course, and I still have my moments but I’m learning how to deal with anger.

When I wake up in the morning, I have a sense of happiness.

Today we’re vacationing in Scottsdale, Arizona, and we went to a butterfly garden on Wednesday. I looked around the butterfly garden and it was so peaceful and meditative. That would have not been something I would have done, so I have a complete completely different outlook on life – that I can do anything. 

I have a strong belief in myself, my integrity, sticking up for myself, not letting others treat me poorly, and my emotional intelligence.

There’s a lot more I could definitely share. The program has been great. I highly recommended it. The leadership is excellent as well. Do the exercises and you will see a very profound change in yourself.

If you’re a leader, a CEO, or an entrepreneur and you want to achieve amazing results and emotional intelligence, you can apply for my 6 week 1-1 intensive here or check out the Super High Performance Formula.

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Simon Lovell

Featured on Forbes.com and Entrepreneur, Simon Lovell coaches and mentors top CEOS, entrepreneurs, and leaders on emotional intelligence, fulfillment, and happiness so they can reach the next level of impact. He is author of The Black Ball: Does Anybody Else Have A Secret & the host of Unshakeable Leaders Podcast.

His loving but NO BS approach and super strong accountability in his signature 6-week program The Super High-Performance Formula has been called 'profound' and 'life-changing'.

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